LOVE OF NEIGHBOUR

The first thing that human beings learn before they leave the Beyond, when they are in that place called the Office, is Love. The Light wants people to have love in ALL things. This word love, human beings give it many interpretations, but here we are talking about true love, the real one, without any calculation or interest in anything. The pure love of those people who love everyone.

In general, the Light does not often find this pure love in human beings. In this interpretation of the word love that human beings make and say they have for their neighbour, something is always hidden, introduced, not seen and difficult to detect. But the Light, before which nothing is hidden, sees all that is hidden in this love, which makes it not this true and pure love, and which human beings pretend to be a true one that they would have for their neighbour.

God, the Creator of all that exists which He created through His immeasurable Love, has this True Love for His Creatures. In the Love of God, there is no calculation, no interest, because God loves everyone without exception.

Human beings can say that this love is the true love, because the Light loves everyone, and it is because of this true Love of God that beings are helped whatever their situation, God's Love is always Omnipresent to help them.

In the love that we find in a couple, it often happens that one of the partners loves the other more for personal reasons, interest or some other reason. A man can have a relationship with a woman for something he likes in the woman, and when this man meets in another woman what interests him, and if he does not control himself and does not hold back his feelings, this man will approach this other woman, and that with beautiful words of love to seduce this other woman.

This same man, with his misplaced thoughts about women, will seduce several other women and this with always words of love. We cannot consider and qualify this man's behaviour as true love, but as a love of self-interest, which is not true love.

There are men who are not even ashamed of abusing the word "love" while they are deceiving women for the sole purpose of satisfying their bodily needs. These men are sinning. It would be better not to utter this word of love which will be reserved only for the one you appreciate in your heart, and not to abuse it in what does not come from your heart, only to seduce a woman for a specific interest.

In pure love, that which comes from the Heart, there is everything in it. Some people say that they have love, but when there is an upset, a problem that affects a discussion in a couple, there is a lack of self-control, they forget the natural application of love of neighbour that wants everything to be shared between the couple or there is a true love of one's heart, and whatever the problem, that everything happens in harmony, peace, understanding and forgiveness.

Husbands in a marriage do not bother to think seriously about the vow of living together as a couple for life, and loving each other for life in any situation of life. Because of this, we see those couples who separate because of a small problem that they could easily solve, but they opt for separation. This is serious, irresponsible and shows the absence of true love of neighbour between the partners, and even more serious is that they do not take into account the children for those couples who would have children, in case of separation. It is obvious that by their behaviour there was no genuine love, no love of neighbour in this flexible relationship and that the two were only living together for whatever reasons that each of them knows well in their hearts. Every problem has a solution that people must invest in seeking and finding, before rushing to separate out of emotion or anger.

In all cases of any problem between people, there is always a solution, if the people concerned have the love of neighbour that they would think about, separation would be avoided, especially in the case of a couple. It is often happens that people express regret after a hasty separation under emotion and anger, that they did not give themselves enough time to reflect and think about a solution. If the relationship was close-knit and with children, such couples will not be truly calm after a precipitous separation without reflection, without a thought for the love of neighbour.

There are those people who are not in a hurry to break those bonds they have always had in a family, in their marriage or with loved ones; they will prefer to remain calm and give themselves time to reflect first before making a decision.

When people have true love of neighbour, they will think of the other person with whom they have a problem, or any person who has a problem, putting themselves in their place, trying to live and understand what is happening to the other person in order to see how to help them or find a solution. But often people do not think about what is affecting the other person in order to see how to help.

We see how human beings act in their lives in relation to love of neighbour. A criminal does not think that he lacks love of neighbour, he has knowledge of this love, but he does not practice it in what he is doing out of need and interest in having something.

The proof is that there are people that criminals do not harm, simply because towards and in front of these people, these criminals feel something in their hearts that prevents them from harming these specific people, whereas usually they do not forgive harming these people who fall into their hands.

This makes it so that, even a dangerous criminal, that he may not harm a person, it is the effect of the activation of love that comes from within his heart at that moment for a reason he may not know. He may have hurt people for whatever reason, but that does not mean that he lacks love for his neighbour. These are often people who have serious problems in their lives, some have mental problems that make them act badly when in a normal state they do not harm people.

A criminal has love for his children, so when they are imprisoned, they do not stay in prison without thinking about their children, which shows their love for their children. True love.

There are also those criminals who lack love for anyone who passes on their path and who they catch and hurt. But when they lose one of their own in their group or in their family, they are deeply touched and sad, unhappy, they cry and shed tears. Their reaction is a proof that they too feel sorrow, they are touched and suffer from the fact of losing one of their own, which is a manifestation of the love of this neighbour who has just left them at that moment.

A lot of these people who commit crimes, robberies, they can have serious problems in their head without anyone noticing. They will do things that they do not even know are wrong, and that people do not appreciate.

Children, up to a certain age, do not know this love they have for their parents. They love the parents because they have been with them since they were on Earth. These children do not see other people who care for them, who are with them and look after them day and night. They have a pure love for their parents for whom they only think what is good, and without calculation or interest. A child who does not think badly of someone has pure love towards his parents. There may be other people around the parents, but the child will only see what the parents do for them, they do not often see the family.

The child needs advice, and should not be blamed every time he or she does something wrong, there may be a reason for this, and it has nothing to do with the malice that can be found in adults.

A child's naughtiness may have an explanation that is easy to detect, but not that of an adult who may act with hidden anger that may extend to hatred. People live together but they do not like each other.

We see that there are many people with hypocritical behaviour. They pretend to be nice people in front of human beings, while they hide things which, once revealed, can be the basis of division, separation, conflict between people, if people were to know about these things hidden by this hypocritical person.

It is better to show one's true self to others than to hide one's bad habits, one's true behaviour.

In love, there is sharing everything with your neighbour, but what we see in some couples, for example, is that they marry with the idea of separation of property in case of divorce.

The sharing of property that we are talking about here is in the case of people who live together, know each other well, and or in the case of a person who has a problem of lacking something, at the same time as another has assets in abundance that he or she should think of sharing, helping the one in need. But instead of sharing, helping the one who is in need, people make fun of this person for having lost all his or her possessions by accident or for other circumstances and causes.

People do not love each other, yet they form an association of people who share the same opinions, ideas and conceptions in many things in life. This is how you find people who are close and like each other a lot and talk about love with each other, while they only like each other.

To have love for one's neighbour is a very important, very strong notion that people should not often confuse with the self-love of people who only like themselves.

The Light never excludes anyone in what it thinks it is doing for human beings.

There are people who only think about the love they have for their work that they do to help others, society in different ways and in different things. Especially the love of these people for their work which requires a lot of love to take care of children, including those who are alone and without financial means, while there are rich people who waste their money in trivialities instead of thinking about those widows, orphans, vulnerable people with different disabilities who are in lack of many things, of what to eat, of clothing and of a stable home.

There are many on the streets begging while the rich throw food in the garbage.
When a person has love for his fellow man, he will find it difficult to throw the rest of the food in the garbage, he will think of those who are lacking and who sleep without putting something in their stomach.

Some rich people have love for their neighbour, but they do not have the time to go and give food to people. They live their life of luxury so they do not think much about the poor who are without food.

Love of neighbour is not only focused on and limited to food and material goods. People should also think about giving advice, giving teachings that are within the framework of love of neighbour. They can help, direct the person to what he should do to find a solution to his problem.

A mother should not only think about getting food for her children but she should also think about the development of her children and the whole family. Husbands in their homes are like adult children who need guidance to go on a good path. There are men who, without their wives who have control over everything they do in their lives, would often get lost in all kinds of trivialities. The woman has a Force that is greater than that of the man. But the man believes that he has dominion over the woman in a home. The feeling that a woman may have in case of danger, the man does not have, and what about the mystery of birth.

God had chosen the woman to be a Bridge with procreation, and HE knew the Force that HE had given and put in the woman in connection with her important mission to help her do her important mission in Creation well.

The love of neighbour that the woman will have for her husband will also make her have more love for her offspring. The nature of the woman and her mission received from the Light makes her more influential on her offspring than the man.

It is noticeable in the case of a sick child in the home, that it is often the woman who is more concerned and sensitive to the child's condition than the man. The man is also affected, but not as deeply as the woman. The mother suffers with and even more than the child. She suffers in her heart and is even sick together with the child, while the man although touched by the child's illness, is not as sensitive as the woman.

We are talking about the real woman, the one who has true love, not the woman who does not take care of the children who she easily abandons to everyone, some running away from their responsibility that she gives to other women.

A true mother is one who takes care of her children and assumes full responsibility for them, no matter what situation she finds herself in, she will not accept to abandon her children.

She may find herself alone, abandoned by her husband and in a difficult situation to feed her children, and to take care of her children, but she will hold on to her children and continue to take care of them. This is the true love of neighbour, the true pure love that these mothers have within them not to abandon their children to other people.

Children who end up on the streets, they take care of themselves, unless they have run away from home themselves. But if this is the fault of the parents, these parents will be condemned when they go before the Judges in the Afterlife. Parents must know and take responsibility for not neglecting the children who have come into their relationship to help them in some way. These parents can abandon the children and continue to live quietly on Earth, but when they come before the Judges in the Afterlife, they will be severely punished.

All that is not done in accordance with the Will of God is sanctioned, whether it be through negligence, ignorance, or refusal to obey something as required by the Light.
It is in the interest of human beings to seek to know the Law, not to neglect It, and to respect It in all that they do. The punishments in the Afterlife are of such severity that human beings cannot imagine them.

On Earth you may be comfortable, without embarrassment, to do wrong, but once you stand before the Judges of the Afterlife, you will bitterly regret those things that were within your reach but which you did not do because of negligence, carelessness, or refusal. You will be punished for this failure. No failure or omission to fulfill the Law in one's life is forgotten or erased, the Law is fulfilled. You reap all that you have sown on earth in thought, word and deed.

The Light gives you the teachings and guidance that are useful to help you understand many things in life so that you lead a spiritual way of life in accordance with the Laws of God. You reap a hundredfold for any good you do, and it raises you to a certain spiritual level, just as when you do evil you will also reap a hundredfold and you are in trouble.
Nothing can be hidden or forgotten before God by His Immutable, Just, Perfect and Incorruptible Laws which govern all Creation in a self-acting manner.

We see those people who behave badly in their lives, who act badly in secret. Some who think they are more careful not to be seen when they do wrong, they look to the left and to the right, to reassure themselves that nobody has seen them. But they forget to look upwards, since there are people who look down on you from Above and you do not see them.

The Light sees everything that is happening around you, in your life. Love of neighbour must be practised everywhere towards all and properly, for your sake and the sake of humanity.